Hi dear friends!!!
I hope everything is ok in your lives, after this I want to share something that I really like to talk...
Well I really want to talk about when my mother had to travel to another country. It is difficult and sad for me but I enjoy tell to my friends how much my life changed since that day.
It was on january 2000 after the earthquake my mom had to travel to Los Angeles, she decided to move there because she was looking for a better future for my brother and I. Since that moment I felt alone even I wasn"t in that time I was living with my father and my brother and his family but was difficult for me begin a new life without the most important person in my life. I was with my mom in every place and every moment.
Well coming back I adapted my life, I began to study in Medalla Milagrosa's school, in that school I passed my best time but was sad for me when we celebrated Mother's Day. That was my terrible day because all my classmates were with their mothers and I was alone and that passed everytime.
My life hasn't been so good since she left me because sometimes I have made decision and I done that alone and unfortunately some of them have been bad and they have affected me a lot.
Well there are many thing that I could tell you more but is too much I only can tell you that up to know I have all the necessary for my and my son's life but everything is for my mom's sacrifice, that's why I thank Gad everyday because He always gives my mom life, health and work.
It is all for today
Take care and bless you.......
Dear Carol,
ResponderEliminarYou are welcome to write as much as you would like to about your mother´s departing El Salvador. We all would like to know how you fulfilled that feeling of nothingness inside your heart. I admire poeple who have grown without their mother or father. Life must have a pretty different face from those who were brought up by both parents.
Regards.
Thanks for your words believe me or not stories like yours help me and give a better idea what a mom means for us. I had the same case, when I was 11 my father travel to USA like your mom for me it was really bad because as you know is difficult to grow up without mom or dad; to be sincere it caused many psychological problems because I consider that a boy find a support in his father and I don’t have. In my opinion parents shouldn’t leave her babies but as we know in our country the economical situation has been bad many parents have to do it.
ResponderEliminarI remember what happened to me when I saw others kids playing with their parents and I didn’t have it, it was so difficult but thanks God I always have wanted to be better, I am not a perfect man but I always want to succeed in my life.
Since the day that my father left me I am not the same, I love him its ok I really love him I could die instead of him believe me but we don`t have a strong relationship because I do feel strange, is totally different with my mom, I always tell her my problems, my happiness etc; she is the first person who knows what I feel and she always help me.
Ok guys take care of your mom and dad you`ll realize that without them you are going to need someone and you never will find other people whom love you lake them.
God Bless You
Hi there!
ResponderEliminarsorry for comment late, but I dindt know XD
Well, I am in the same situation, my mom is in USA, I miss her a lot, and I'm totally different since may mom left the country,but let me tell you I'm a better person because now,because now I value more my mother and not only her but my entire family, now I know being a mother without being because I am responsible of my brother, my sister and my dad at home. I have more responsibilities and like Carol my mom has made me much needed because I've made many mistakes with some decisions,but I've learned a lot, I know God takes care of her always and I have faith that very soon we'll be together again.
Jacinto and Carol I congratulate you because you are nice people and very mature, despite the difficulties. blessings friends!
well carol, it's a sad story that makes me think in how important my mother is. Anyway, your story is pretty interesting because as you said your life has changed a lot since then. I know that feeling of loneliness and it really sucks.
ResponderEliminarWhenever you feel alone (but i think you don't) you know you have your son who is the most important person for you by your side and not only him but your father, boyfriend (i think he is your boyfriend...) and they care about you. Remember that God is always with you. Your mother is far from you but she's still in your heart wherever you are she is with you. I love that kind of relationship between a mother and her son/daughter because no matter what you do, she always loves you regardless you don't behave well (as you.... know). Sometimes we can't have everything or everyone we want or love but what remains is to fight for it and remember that hope is what keeps the person alive and the only thing we must not lose.
Blessings for you and everyone.
Gustavo
Hiiiiiiii there!!....
ResponderEliminarCarol let me tell you that I really, really understand what are you talking about Cuz' I didn't grow up with my mother eigther, and I agree with you in those feelings you had had, but let me tell you that things happen for a reason and even though that your mother is not with you or the fact that I haven't seen mine since I was 9 Years old, makes us strong in a certain way that no one that is not in our situation can understand, so for that reason, say thanks to God that your mom still alive and forget about the sadness momments (I know it is difficult) because your life is following a path that right now you can avoid, even if you want, so, what I truly recommend you is to keep your head up high, and try to make the best decisions in your life because sooner or later you will be next to your mom...
God bless you my friend
Love
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Good Afternoon!!
ResponderEliminaryour story very interesting and sad for what you say, sometimes we do not take into account the love of our mothers as immature don't let us.
We as humans should treat equally each other and perhaps even forgive if necessary, and I give my opinion about the purpose that your mom had to go to Los Angeles, maybe she did like you said, for a good future and for you to get where you're so far.
Value the affection we reciveive and treat everyone equally! costs nothing!
Blessings.